{"id":926179,"date":"2025-03-12T13:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-03-12T10:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/?p=926179"},"modified":"2025-03-12T13:00:00","modified_gmt":"2025-03-12T10:00:00","slug":"my-boob-job-went-against-everything-i-believe-in","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/?p=926179","title":{"rendered":"My Boob Job Went Against Everything I Believe In"},"content":{"rendered":"<article class=\"article main-content\" lang=\"en-US\">\n<div class=\"ArticlePageLedeBackground-JMVDp bIwRjk\">\n<header class=\"ContentHeaderWrapper-cqMZiN dUrbvR content-header article__content-header inset\">\n<div data-testid=\"ContentHeaderContainer\" class=\"ContentHeaderContainer-cMdHiZ eFZJeG\">\n<div class=\"ContentHeaderHedAccreditationWrapper-WaWBW fTkfBu\">\n<div data-testid=\"ContentHeaderTitleBlockWrapper\" class=\"ContentHeaderTitleBlockWrapper-cyIGwg dMceKV\">\n<div data-testid=\"ContentHeaderRubric\" class=\"ContentHeaderRubricBlock-aIcNK eDSQnM\">\n<div data-testid=\"ContentHeaderRubricDateBlock\" class=\"ContentHeaderRubricDateBlock-kvxmSu jVyBWg\">\n<div class=\"RubricWrapper-dZIqzO ghbJG ContentHeaderRubricContainer-fiPRfk fRUoUz\"><span class=\"RubricName-gkORYq fCauaT rubric__name\">Body Image<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h1 data-testid=\"ContentHeaderHed\" class=\"BaseWrap-sc-gzmcOU BaseText-eqOrNE ContentHeaderHed-SVoJX deqABF iHBUaf dyRzMH\">My Boob Job Went Against Everything I Believe In<\/h1>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ContentHeaderAccreditation-fcyiw bhgqZY content-header__accreditation\" data-testid=\"ContentHeaderAccreditation\">\n<div class=\"ContentHeaderDek-bCXPyE hNoQnF\">I was staunchly anti-plastic surgery until a breast augmentation changed my life.<\/div>\n<div class=\"ContentHeaderByline-jXtKQj jgXynP\">\n<div class=\"ContentHeaderBylineContent-dkwwFS fRKSvg\">\n<div data-testid=\"BylinesWrapper\" class=\"BylinesWrapper-vmGrt cZzmZD bylines ContentHeaderBylines-cTXqro ljGzhW\"><span class=\"BylineWrapper-jRoBEm dflWou byline bylines__byline\" data-testid=\"BylineWrapper\"><span class=\"BylineNamesWrapper-jrdaOa fXeqQN\"><span data-testid=\"BylineName\" class=\"BylineName-kqTBDS dDLLkB byline__name\"><span class=\"BaseWrap-sc-gzmcOU BaseText-eqOrNE BylinePreamble-itSxDZ deqABF cFJkIM jcgMlx byline__preamble\">By <\/span>Nicola Dall&#8217;Asen<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p><time data-testid=\"ContentHeaderPublishDate\" datetime=\"2025-03-12T09:00:00-04:00\" class=\"BaseWrap-sc-gzmcOU BaseText-eqOrNE ContentHeaderPublishDate-eNTYkb deqABF lnzeTN eFanim\">March 12, 2025<\/time><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ContentHeaderLeadAsset-hVxhYG jbwyOw lead-asset ContentHeaderLeadAssetWrapper-gQBTSl ljLtrQ lead-asset--width-undefined\" data-testid=\"ContentHeaderLeadAsset\">\n<figure class=\"ContentHeaderLeadAssetContent-kyKlgP eGZaQl\">\n<div class=\"ContentHeaderLeadAssetContentMedia-bwiUDr keSRCn 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class=\"CaptionWrapper-jYrTxZ gVBkjw caption ContentHeaderLeadAssetCaption-ifsaEE eOzlWD\" data-testid=\"caption-wrapper\"><span class=\"BaseWrap-sc-gzmcOU BaseText-eqOrNE CaptionCredit-eowWKH deqABF lnzeTN gxwcqg caption__credit\">Ana Jare\u0301n<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/header>\n<\/div>\n<div data-attribute-verso-pattern=\"article-body\" class=\"ArticlePageContentBackGround-dcEtzE kUtTlG article-body__content\">\n<div class=\"ArticlePageChunksContent-enJWmu ilcJfn\">\n<div data-testid=\"ArticlePageChunks\" class=\"ArticlePageChunks-fwcPjP cAlDKu\">\n<div class=\"GridWrapper-cFSKbf cxzKYj grid grid-margins grid-items-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hkPQhP lnoYVP grid-layout--adrail narrow wide-adrail\" data-journey-hook=\"grid-wrapper\">\n<div class=\"GridItem-beYvyV kCPYUp grid--item grid-layout__content\">\n<div class=\"BodyWrapper-kzyFNv HDJd body body__container article__body\" data-journey-hook=\"client-content\" data-testid=\"BodyWrapper\">\n<div class=\"body__inner-container\">\n<p><em>Welcome back to Learning Curve, a column where we unpack the complicated experience of accepting your own body in a world that doesn&#8217;t seem to want you to. In this edition, Nicola examines her combative relationship with plastic surgery\u2014which changed drastically after she went under the knife herself.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Plastic surgery and I have never really gotten along. Even at my job here at <em>Allure<\/em>, where we cover cosmetic procedures extensively, she and I have kept our distance, smiling stiffly at each other from across the room when we make accidental eye contact but never bothering to actually talk to each other. What is there to say? I just always thought she was a little fake, you know?<\/p>\n<p>Truthfully, I\u2019ve pretty much always held the belief that plastic surgery is a cheat code people use to like their own bodies, and that it\u2019s unfeminist to use that cheat code under circumstances that aren\u2019t medically necessary. Undergoing elective surgery is expensive and painful, but it\u2019s easier than embracing your so-called flaws, isn\u2019t it? The plastic surgery industrial complex only serves to enforce the unrealistic beauty standard that makes the general masses feel like our bodies are unattractive or unworthy.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s what I believed, anyway, until I wound up tits out on an operating table, sinking into anesthesia-induced sleep so a plastic surgeon could make my breasts smaller and perkier. That\u2019s right: I, a body-image columnist who preaches self-acceptance for a living, just got a boob job. Did I \u201ccheat,\u201d by my own standard? Yes. But I can\u2019t deny how much it\u2019s changed my body image\u2014and more importantly, my day-to-day life\u2014for the better.<\/p>\n<aside aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"PullQuoteEmbedWrapper-sc-TKIUW kKNLCl\" data-testid=\"pullquote-embed-center\">\n<div class=\"PullQuoteEmbedContent-sc-lixSTo cQciWx\">\n<p>\u201cI wasn\u2019t anti-plastic surgery because I had worked at having a good body image\u2026 much of my attitude was coming from deep-seated insecurity.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<p>Through getting a procedure I never thought I\u2019d want or need, I\u2019ve come to realize I wasn\u2019t anti-plastic surgery because I had worked at having a good body image and wished others would do the same. Turns out, much of my attitude was actually coming from deep-seated insecurity, not just about what I look like but who I am and what I\u2019ve been through.<\/p>\n<p>Historically, I\u2019d never spared much thought to my breasts. They\u2019d been a little asymmetric since puberty, something I have in common with the vast majority of people with boobs. Though I didn\u2019t like their lack of perkiness, they were relatively small in a way I appreciated. Through my late teens and most of my 20s, they ultimately remained the same\u2026 but by the time I hit 30, that mild asymmetry had taken a turn for the extreme\u2014as in a two-cup-difference extreme.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"GridWrapper-cFSKbf cxzKYj grid grid-margins grid-items-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hkPQhP lnoYVP grid-layout--adrail narrow wide-adrail\" data-journey-hook=\"grid-wrapper\">\n<div class=\"GridItem-beYvyV kCPYUp grid--item grid-layout__content\">\n<div class=\"BodyWrapper-kzyFNv HDJd body body__container article__body\" data-journey-hook=\"client-content\" data-testid=\"BodyWrapper\">\n<div class=\"body__inner-container\">\n<p>My C cups had somehow evolved into one B cup and one D cup. It must have happened gradually, but it hit me very suddenly one day last spring when my boyfriend, concerned, asked if I thought my bigger breast (lefty) was still growing. The asymmetry had advanced enough during our year-and-a-half-long relationship for him to worry about my health. Thankfully, my gynecologist confirmed shortly thereafter that there was nothing to worry about. The severe asymmetry, she said, was likely the result of major weight fluctuation, which checks: I went up a couple of dress sizes during the pandemic and went down a few after the fact, all the unintentional result of my ever-changing mental state.<\/p>\n<p>It was only at that point that I started coming to terms with the fact that the unevenness of my breasts had been making me self-conscious for a long time, and not just in the \u201cI don\u2019t feel beautiful\u201d kind of way. They had begun to sag rather drastically, too\u2014I expected my breasts to lose a little height as I entered my 30s, but I didn\u2019t anticipate that I would constantly feel the painful sensation of my skin stretching past its limit as if my nipples were trying to make a <em>Shawshank Redemption<\/em>-style escape through the floor. Especially on the left side.<\/p>\n<div class=\"GroupCalloutWrapper-cfrXZg iaIQYt callout callout--group callout--group-2\" data-testid=\"GroupCalloutWrapper\">\n<figure class=\"AssetEmbedWrapper-fkZDUs kHRAYC asset-embed callout--group-item callout--group-item-1\">\n<div class=\"AssetEmbedAssetContainer-eEeytc eRSvCP asset-embed__asset-container\"><span class=\"SpanWrapper-zEXFr koTknX responsive-asset AssetEmbedResponsiveAsset-cIfZLr fHIkTW asset-embed__responsive-asset\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"breast augmentation for uneven breasts BEFORE from the front\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"ResponsiveImageContainer-eNxvmU cfBbTk responsive-image__image\" src=\"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/breast2520augmentation2520for2520uneven2520breasts2520before2520front.jpg\" title=\"breast2520augmentation2520for2520uneven2520breasts2520before2520front\"><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"CaptionWrapper-jYrTxZ gVBkjw caption AssetEmbedCaption-fyuOdR gAYTTS asset-embed__caption\" data-testid=\"caption-wrapper\"><span class=\"BaseWrap-sc-gzmcOU BaseText-eqOrNE CaptionCredit-eowWKH deqABF lnzeTN gxwcqg caption__credit\">Photo: Nicola Dall&#8217;Asen<\/span><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<figure class=\"AssetEmbedWrapper-fkZDUs kHRAYC asset-embed callout--group-item callout--group-item-2\">\n<div class=\"AssetEmbedAssetContainer-eEeytc eRSvCP asset-embed__asset-container\"><span class=\"SpanWrapper-zEXFr koTknX responsive-asset AssetEmbedResponsiveAsset-cIfZLr fHIkTW asset-embed__responsive-asset\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"breast augmentation for uneven breasts BEFORE from the side\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"ResponsiveImageContainer-eNxvmU cfBbTk responsive-image__image\" src=\"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/breast2520augmentation2520for2520uneven2520breasts2520before2520side.jpg\" title=\"breast2520augmentation2520for2520uneven2520breasts2520before2520side\"><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"CaptionWrapper-jYrTxZ gVBkjw caption AssetEmbedCaption-fyuOdR gAYTTS asset-embed__caption\" data-testid=\"caption-wrapper\"><span class=\"BaseWrap-sc-gzmcOU BaseText-eqOrNE CaptionCredit-eowWKH deqABF lnzeTN gxwcqg caption__credit\">Photo: Nicola Dall&#8217;Asen<\/span><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>I knew if I wanted guaranteed relief from this problem, plastic surgery was my best and only bet. I grit my teeth for months over whether or not having evenly sized breasts was worth betraying my beliefs about body acceptance, but eventually my physical discomfort won out. I hesitantly booked a consultation with Melissa Doft, MD, a board-certified plastic surgeon here in New York City. I\u2019d previously met her through work and had seen her less-is-more approach and gentle bedside manner first-hand. I wanted to avoid having the male gaze or any kind of beauty standard thrust upon my breasts by my surgeon, and I felt safe already knowing that she doesn\u2019t play like that.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"GridWrapper-cFSKbf cxzKYj grid grid-margins grid-items-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hkPQhP lnoYVP grid-layout--adrail narrow wide-adrail\" data-journey-hook=\"grid-wrapper\">\n<div class=\"GridItem-beYvyV kCPYUp grid--item grid-layout__content\">\n<div class=\"BodyWrapper-kzyFNv HDJd body body__container article__body\" data-journey-hook=\"client-content\" data-testid=\"BodyWrapper\">\n<div class=\"body__inner-container\">\n<p>I\u2019ve been inside my fair share of dermatology and cosmetic surgery firms, but I\u2019m usually there in a professional capacity, dressed in something sharp and ready to discuss a new product or the year\u2019s biggest trends. So facing a mirror in one of Dr. Doft\u2019s patient rooms in a wide-open surgical gown and talking about my own body felt very wrong at first. My anxiety told me I was taking an extreme measure to solve a vain problem, but my struggles were quickly validated by Dr. Doft, who instantly took note of the impacts my uneven breasts had on my lifestyle. On a sweltering August day, I\u2019d arrived at the consultation dripping in sweat from wearing a baggy, long-sleeved denim jumpsuit, one of my few outfits I felt comfortable being perceived in. \u201cYou\u2019re only 30, you should be traipsing around in something skimpy,\u201d she joked. A weight instantly lifted off of me as I realized how much I agreed; I was tired of hiding, but I didn\u2019t have to force myself to live that way anymore.<\/p>\n<p>She presented me with a buffet of surgical options, some of which mortified me a little (implants or transferring fat from my stomach, for example). In the end, we agreed on her performing a breast reduction on the left and a lift on both sides, which would even out my cup sizes, eliminate the uncomfortable sagging, and hopefully prevent further asymmetry down the line. I booked the procedure for January. Now, shit was real.<\/p>\n<p>In the six months between the consultation and the surgery, I flip-flopped daily from being excited to feeling guilty for betraying my morals. At home, I dominated conversations with my boyfriend by waxing poetic about how the surgery would improve my life, perhaps subconsciously trying to convince him I wasn\u2019t doing this for vanity\u2019s sake. At some point, he said, \u201cYou don\u2019t have to justify this to me. It would be OK if you did this simply because you wanted to.\u201d I realized I hadn\u2019t been trying to justify my choice to him at all\u2014I was trying to justify it to myself out of self-judgment. Somewhere deep down there, I felt shame about the choice I was making.<\/p>\n<aside aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"PullQuoteEmbedWrapper-sc-TKIUW kKNLCl\" data-testid=\"pullquote-embed-center\">\n<div class=\"PullQuoteEmbedContent-sc-lixSTo cQciWx\">\n<p>&#8220;I was trying to justify the surgery to myself out of self-judgment. Somewhere deep down, I felt shame about the choice I was making.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<p>That was solely a me-thing. When I told my friends and family I was getting a boob job, I was met with nothing but support and excitement, no questions asked. I thought about the couple of other women I know who\u2019ve gotten breast augmentations solely for aesthetic reasons. Though I might have privately thought they were succumbing to a misogynist fantasy, I never thought less of them as humans for doing so, and I still expressed happiness for them. People\u2019s bodies are theirs to do with as they please, even if I don\u2019t always agree with what they choose to do. So why did it feel that much more problematic when it was me going under the knife? It couldn\u2019t just have been all that body positivity I\u2019d written about; something else was bubbling under the surface.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"GridWrapper-cFSKbf cxzKYj grid grid-margins grid-items-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hkPQhP lnoYVP grid-layout--adrail narrow wide-adrail\" data-journey-hook=\"grid-wrapper\">\n<div class=\"GridItem-beYvyV kCPYUp grid--item grid-layout__content\">\n<div class=\"BodyWrapper-kzyFNv HDJd body body__container article__body\" data-journey-hook=\"client-content\" data-testid=\"BodyWrapper\">\n<div class=\"body__inner-container\">\n<p>It came to me on a random fall afternoon a couple of months after my consultation. Having just dried off from a shower, I sat naked on the edge of my bed, facing the full-length mirror propped against the wall near my bedroom door. I used my fingers to hold my nipples in a higher position the same way Dr. Doft illustrated my future results to me. I\u2019d do this just about every time I happened to catch myself topless in a mirror, but this particular time I found myself clocking subconscious thought patterns I hadn\u2019t noticed before.<\/p>\n<p><em>Oh my God, my breasts are going to look like that. They\u2019re going to be normal!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I can\u2019t imagine myself having boobs that I think look and feel good. That\u2019s going to be weird. I\u2019m not the kind of person who has good boobs.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not the kind of person who has a good body. I don\u2019t have a body that makes life easy. Having a \u201cbad\u201d body is part of who I am.<\/p>\n<p><em>I don\u2019t deserve to have good boobs. I\u2019m not being true to myself if I\u2019m not struggling with my body.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now\u2019s a good time to mention my other chronic pain, pain that isn\u2019t related to my sagging breasts. If you keep up with this column (thank you!), you know that I\u2019ve struggled with debilitating chronic lower back pain my entire adult life, simply the result of unlucky genetics. I\u2019ve had major spinal surgery. I\u2019ve been in longterm physical therapy five times. I\u2019ve endured every injection and imaging process possible, and only recently did I exhaust my medical options to the point I\u2019ve been forced to accept that I\u2019ll probably always have this pain.<\/p>\n<p>So I am unfortunately used to the feeling of having my bodily autonomy taken from me\u2014by the pain itself, by doctors who tell me there\u2019s nothing they can do or don\u2019t think my pain is much of a problem, by people in everyday life who gloss over my pain because it\u2019s not visible. Its neverendingness sometimes leads me to believe my pain is some kind of karmic retribution for being imperfect.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"GridWrapper-cFSKbf cxzKYj grid grid-margins grid-items-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hkPQhP lnoYVP grid-layout--adrail narrow wide-adrail\" data-journey-hook=\"grid-wrapper\">\n<div class=\"GridItem-beYvyV kCPYUp grid--item grid-layout__content\">\n<div class=\"BodyWrapper-kzyFNv HDJd body body__container article__body\" data-journey-hook=\"client-content\" data-testid=\"BodyWrapper\">\n<div class=\"body__inner-container\">\n<p>Sitting there in front of the mirror, I was forced to reckon with the fact that my aversion to plastic surgery wasn\u2019t so much of a feminist outcry, then. In reality, I felt resentful of people who had a problem with their body, whether aesthetic or practical, and were able to just\u2026 fix it. I was jealous of the control they were able to take. But now, with my own breast augmentation, I was exercising my own ability to fix a problem with my body, something I\u2019d never been able to do successfully. I was taking some of my autonomy back. I was proving to myself that I <em>do<\/em> deserve to have a body that works for me.<\/p>\n<p>As I sit here writing this only a week post-op, I\u2019m still in the process of healing physically. Emotionally, I already feel healed. Having my feelings taken seriously by a doctor for once bolstered my confidence in my ability to make choices for myself. I felt hope going into a medical procedure for the first time in years, and I felt unmitigated joy coming out of one (you know, once the anesthesia wore off) for the first time ever. I\u2019m still in some physical pain, but this time I know it\u2019s only temporary\u2014and that enduring it is going to lead to a better future.<\/p>\n<div class=\"GroupCalloutWrapper-cfrXZg iaIQYt callout callout--group callout--group-2\" data-testid=\"GroupCalloutWrapper\">\n<figure class=\"AssetEmbedWrapper-fkZDUs kHRAYC asset-embed callout--group-item callout--group-item-1\">\n<div class=\"AssetEmbedAssetContainer-eEeytc eRSvCP asset-embed__asset-container\"><span class=\"SpanWrapper-zEXFr koTknX responsive-asset AssetEmbedResponsiveAsset-cIfZLr fHIkTW asset-embed__responsive-asset\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"breast augmentation for uneven breasts AFTER from front\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"ResponsiveImageContainer-eNxvmU cfBbTk responsive-image__image\" src=\"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/breast2520augmentation2520for2520uneven2520breasts2520after2520front.jpg\" title=\"breast2520augmentation2520for2520uneven2520breasts2520after2520front\"><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"CaptionWrapper-jYrTxZ gVBkjw caption AssetEmbedCaption-fyuOdR gAYTTS asset-embed__caption\" data-testid=\"caption-wrapper\"><span class=\"BaseWrap-sc-gzmcOU BaseText-eqOrNE CaptionCredit-eowWKH deqABF lnzeTN gxwcqg caption__credit\">Photo: Nicola Dall&#8217;Asen<\/span><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<figure class=\"AssetEmbedWrapper-fkZDUs kHRAYC asset-embed callout--group-item callout--group-item-2\">\n<div class=\"AssetEmbedAssetContainer-eEeytc eRSvCP asset-embed__asset-container\"><span class=\"SpanWrapper-zEXFr koTknX responsive-asset AssetEmbedResponsiveAsset-cIfZLr fHIkTW asset-embed__responsive-asset\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"breast augmentation for uneven breasts AFTER from side\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"ResponsiveImageContainer-eNxvmU cfBbTk responsive-image__image\" src=\"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/breast2520augmentation2520for2520uneven2520breasts2520after2520side.jpg\" title=\"breast2520augmentation2520for2520uneven2520breasts2520after2520side\"><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"CaptionWrapper-jYrTxZ gVBkjw caption AssetEmbedCaption-fyuOdR gAYTTS asset-embed__caption\" data-testid=\"caption-wrapper\"><span class=\"BaseWrap-sc-gzmcOU BaseText-eqOrNE CaptionCredit-eowWKH deqABF lnzeTN gxwcqg caption__credit\">Photo: Nicola Dall&#8217;Asen<\/span><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Every time I put on a piece of clothing I haven\u2019t worn since The Before Times, I weep all too enthusiastically. There\u2019s no more spillage. No more awkwardly readjusting my stretched-out sports bra every ten seconds because one boob wants to hog the blankets. All the abandoned button-up shirts, low-cut tops, and form-fitting dresses in my closet can be seen again. <em>I<\/em> can be seen again. I no longer slouch to avoid drawing attention to my chest. Never again will I pull back during sex because it hurts when my breasts bounce too much and I\u2019m worried they look ridiculous. Come the summertime, I will gallop into the ocean with my whole damn spirit without fear of one breast slipping out of my swimsuit.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"GridWrapper-cFSKbf cxzKYj grid grid-margins grid-items-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hkPQhP lnoYVP grid-layout--adrail narrow wide-adrail\" data-journey-hook=\"grid-wrapper\">\n<div class=\"GridItem-beYvyV kCPYUp grid--item grid-layout__content\">\n<div class=\"BodyWrapper-kzyFNv HDJd body body__container article__body\" data-journey-hook=\"client-content\" data-testid=\"BodyWrapper\">\n<div class=\"body__inner-container\">\n<p>Are plastic surgery and I ever gonna be besties? No. I still think, in extreme cases, it has the potential to be overused and abused by people with unhealthy mindsets about their own self-worth. I still think the industry as a whole contributes to the demeaning societal assertion that women are only valuable if they\u2019re a specific type of beautiful. I still think the increasing cultural awareness of plastic surgery has spawned a casually inhumane type of public discourse about certain procedures and the people who may or may not get them.<\/p>\n<p>But there\u2019s more nuance to plastic surgery\u2014and people\u2019s reasoning for wanting it\u2014than I was willing to acknowledge. I always appreciated its benefits in special circumstances such as breast cancer survivors or gender affirmation. But seeking plastic surgery for other reasons is valid, too. Even if that reason is simply to make life a little more convenient or to feel a little less self-conscious.<\/p>\n<p>Even though these new breasts of mine are still covered in surgical tape and bruised to all hell, I couldn\u2019t love them more for the new lease on life they\u2019ve already given me. And it never would have happened had I let my traumas continue to dictate what is and isn\u2019t right for me. Maybe now I can be free of that, too.<\/p>\n<p><em>To hear Nicola read this story, check out Allure\u2019s newsletter, The Beauty Chat.<\/em><\/p>\n<hr>\n<p><strong>More from Learning Curve:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Was Fatphobia the Only Reason I Ever Wanted to Have Long Nails?<\/li>\n<li>Fine, I\u2019ll Say It: I Hate It When Plus-Size Celebrities Lose Weight<\/li>\n<li>I Write About Body Acceptance for a Living, But I Hate My Body<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"GridWrapper-cFSKbf cxzKYj grid grid-margins grid-items-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hkPQhP lnoYVP grid-layout--adrail narrow wide-adrail\" data-journey-hook=\"grid-wrapper\">\n<div class=\"GridItem-beYvyV kCPYUp grid--item grid-layout__content\">\n<div class=\"BodyWrapper-kzyFNv HDJd body body__container article__body\" data-journey-hook=\"client-content\" data-testid=\"BodyWrapper\">\n<div class=\"body__inner-container\">\n<hr>\n<p><strong>Now, watch plastic surgery evolve throughout a century:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Follow<\/em> Allure <em>on<\/em>\u00a0<em>Instagram<\/em><em>and<\/em>\u00a0<em>TikTok, or<\/em>\u00a0<em>subscribe to our newsletter<\/em><em>to stay up to date on all things beauty.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<p> Source URL: https:\/\/www.allure.com\/story\/breast-augmentation-body-positivity<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Body Image My Boob Job Went Against Everything I Believe In I was staunchly anti-plastic surgery until a breast augmentation changed my life. 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