{"id":2245269,"date":"2026-11-08T08:00:23","date_gmt":"2026-11-08T05:00:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/?p=2245269"},"modified":"2026-11-08T08:00:23","modified_gmt":"2026-11-08T05:00:23","slug":"dar-cand-nu-mai-ai-ce-face","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/?p=2245269","title":{"rendered":"Dar c\u00e2nd nu mai ai ce face?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[analyse_image type=&#8221;featured&#8221; src=&#8221;https:\/\/opiniabuzau.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Alexandru-Pripon-si-mai-nou-scaled.webp&#8221;]<\/p>\n<div class=\"entry-content entry clearfix\">\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>Am scris recent despre \u00eentrebarea cu t\u00e2lc a fostului meu diriginte: \u201eCe faci c\u00e2nd n-ai ce face?\u201d. Am l\u0103murit, foarte pe scurt, \u00een ce m\u0103sur\u0103 consider extrem de important at\u00e2t timpul liber (dedicat sinelui), c\u00e2t \u0219i asocierea acestuia cu activit\u0103\u021bi ziditoare de cuget \u0219i spirit. Ba chiar am men\u021bionat faptul c\u0103 interoga\u021bia bine ticluit\u0103, transformat\u0103 \u00een laitmotiv, devenise pentru c\u00e2te unii dintre noi un real izvor de mici glume. Printre ele trona, la loc de cinste, de\u0219i rostit\u0103 \u00een \u0219oapt\u0103, \u00eentrebarea: \u201eDar c\u00e2nd nu mai ai ce face?\u201d. Iar aici sunt necesare alte explica\u021bii.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Adolescen\u021ba scoate la iveal\u0103 o mul\u021bime de senza\u021bii cu poten\u021ba de a influen\u021ba comportamente \u0219i a des\u0103v\u00e2r\u0219i feluri de a fi. Unele ajung s\u0103 dispar\u0103 de unde au venit, \u00een acea subtil\u0103 cea\u021b\u0103 a personalit\u0103\u021bii incipiente, altele ajung s\u0103 ne defineasc\u0103, \u00eempletindu-se cu tendin\u021be deja hot\u0103rnicite, vechi \u0219i noi. Difer\u0103 de la om la om, de la fire la fire, \u00eens\u0103 cea mai important\u0103, omniprezent\u0103, atotputernic\u0103, este revolta.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cendreptat\u0103 \u00eempotriva autorit\u0103\u021bii de orice fel sau neav\u00e2nd o cauz\u0103 explicit\u0103, rebeliunea adolescentin\u0103 este o constant\u0103. Va ap\u0103rea la un moment dat, indiferent ce form\u0103 va \u00eembr\u0103ca sau ce intensitate va avea. Poate dura c\u00e2teva clipe sau o \u00eentreag\u0103 via\u021b\u0103, poate r\u0103m\u00e2ne o simpl\u0103 amintire stranie sau poate r\u0103m\u00e2ne o tr\u0103s\u0103tur\u0103 sine qua non a unei firi, dar ea va izbucni c\u00e2ndva \u0219i va fi un semn al apropiatei maturiz\u0103ri.<\/p>\n<p>Desigur, sunt persoane care p\u0103streaz\u0103 o via\u021b\u0103 aspecte din adolescen\u021b\u0103. Comportamente \u0219i cuvinte, tr\u0103iri \u0219i izbucniri, unele ne \u00eenso\u021besc p\u00e2n\u0103 la final. Unii r\u0103m\u00e2n r\u0103zvr\u0103ti\u021bi \u00eempotriva oric\u0103rui semn de autoritate, al\u021bii, dimpotriv\u0103, par s\u0103 isp\u0103\u0219easc\u0103 o trecut\u0103 revolt\u0103 printr-o cumin\u021benie excesiv\u0103. \u00cen parantez\u0103 fie spus, a\u0219a pare s\u0103 arate societatea rom\u00e2neasc\u0103 postdecembrist\u0103, cov\u00e2r\u0219it\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la submisiune de unele comete r\u0103t\u0103cite, dar statornicite politic pe firmament. \u00cens\u0103 acesta este un punct de vedere \u2013 subiectiv, exprimat dintr-un unghi u\u0219or ponci\u0219 \u2013, lipsit de \u00eensemn\u0103tate pentru subiectul pe care l-am abordat. Probabil.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0103 le ceri unor adolescen\u021bi, care percep acut complexitatea materiilor \u0219colare \u0219i a restric\u021biilor inerente mediului liceal, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i gestioneze cu acribie timpul, pentru o bun\u0103 dezvoltare intelectual\u0103 \u0219i sufleteasc\u0103, este un act riscant, dar care poate fi r\u0103spl\u0103tit cu rezultate extraordinare. \u0218i, uneori, cu izb\u00e2nzi surprinz\u0103toare. Noi, \u0219trengarii de atunci, am priceput t\u00e2lcul \u0219i am urmat, \u00een mare parte, \u00eendemnul, \u00eens\u0103 am ad\u0103ugat o nuan\u021b\u0103 umoristic\u0103 suplimentar\u0103 butadei, formul\u00e2nd: \u201eCe te faci c\u00e2nd nu mai ai ce face?\u201d \u2013 cum s\u0103 te compor\u021bi, a\u0219adar, atunci c\u00e2nd \u021bi se impune ceva.<\/p>\n<div class=\"stream-item stream-item-in-post stream-item-inline-post aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/vreaulanova.ro\/?utm_source=opiniabuzau&amp;utm_medium=image\" title target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-od-unknown-tag data-od-xpath=\"\/HTML\/BODY\/DIV[@class=&apos;background-overlay&apos;]\/*[1][self::DIV]\/*[1][self::DIV]\/*[4][self::DIV]\/*[1][self::DIV]\/*[1][self::DIV]\/*[2][self::ARTICLE]\/*[3][self::DIV]\/*[7][self::DIV]\/*[1][self::A]\/*[1][self::IMG]\" src=\"https:\/\/opiniabuzau.ro\/wp-content\/smush-webp\/2022\/02\/MicrosoftTeams-image-4-1.jpg.webp\" alt width=\"728\" height=\"91\" class=\"perfmatters-lazy\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-od-unknown-tag data-od-xpath=\"\/HTML\/BODY\/DIV[@class=&apos;background-overlay&apos;]\/*[1][self::DIV]\/*[1][self::DIV]\/*[4][self::DIV]\/*[1][self::DIV]\/*[1][self::DIV]\/*[2][self::ARTICLE]\/*[3][self::DIV]\/*[7][self::DIV]\/*[1][self::A]\/*[1][self::IMG]\" src=\"https:\/\/opiniabuzau.ro\/wp-content\/smush-webp\/2022\/02\/MicrosoftTeams-image-4-1.jpg.webp\" alt width=\"728\" height=\"91\"><\/a><\/div>\n<p>Am fost \u0219i t\u00e2n\u0103r c\u00e2ndva, \u0219i r\u0103zvr\u0103tit uneori, \u0219i prea cuminte alteori. Am urmat \u00eendemnuri bune \u0219i rele \u2013 am descoperit t\u00e2rziu, poate, valoarea unora \u0219i pericolul pe care l-au reprezentat altele. Iar restric\u021biile de odinioar\u0103 m-au \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 recunosc (s\u0103 disting \u0219i s\u0103 fac distinc\u021bia, pertinent, dintre) austeritatea \u00eendrept\u0103\u021bit\u0103 \u0219i abera\u021bia dictatorial\u0103. E drept, am sim\u021bit pe propria piele ce reprezint\u0103 \u00eengr\u0103dirile generalizate la nivel de stat \u0219i pr\u0103v\u0103lite cople\u0219itor peste cei mul\u021bi, p\u00e2n\u0103 la disperare \u00eenfometat\u0103. \u00cen\u021beleg, a\u0219adar, t\u0103cerea impus\u0103 \u0219i durerea mocnit\u0103, dup\u0103 cum \u0219tiu \u0219i \u00een ce m\u0103sur\u0103 poate vindeca totul o revolt\u0103 gestionat\u0103, mai apoi, de ceilal\u021bi, nu de noi\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Tr\u0103im \u0219i ne dezvolt\u0103m, ne percepem \u0219i ne \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bim existen\u021ba, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 fim \u0219i descoperim cum s\u0103 devenim mai buni. Desigur, factorii externi, orice s-ar spune, sunt, prea adesea, decisivi, iar un mediu propice ne poate sprijini s\u0103 atingem cele mai \u00eenalte culmi ale performan\u021bei \u2013 ori, mai bine pentru noi, cel mai \u00eenalt grad al \u00eemplinirii personale. Aceasta, poate, \u0219i dac\u0103 avem un cuv\u00e2nt de spus \u00een aceast\u0103 privin\u021b\u0103, dac\u0103 suntem, a\u0219adar, \u00eendruma\u021bi, nu for\u021ba\u021bi. Dar c\u00e2nd nu mai ai ce face? Ei, aici este cu adev\u0103rat o problem\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen dictatur\u0103 sau democra\u021bie, \u00een vremuri tulburi sau senine, singurul care valideaz\u0103 valoarea perioadei (\u0219i a oamenilor) este sentimentul libert\u0103\u021bii. Nu aparen\u021ba, nici varianta <em>de buzunar,<\/em> cu manifest\u0103ri slobode <em>pe cartel\u0103,<\/em> \u00een intervale precis definite. Constr\u00e2ngerea, de orice fel, anuleaz\u0103 tot binele unei societ\u0103\u021bi \u0219i instaureaz\u0103 un climat de perpetu\u0103 ne\u00eemplinire. Intermiten\u021ba libert\u0103\u021bilor \u0219i restric\u021biilor nu este cu nimic mai bun\u0103. Dup\u0103 cum nici r\u0103ul nestingherit ori binele \u00een c\u0103tu\u0219e nu vindec\u0103 hibele personale sau ale societ\u0103\u021bii. Exist\u0103 un echilibru al firii care, dac\u0103 este modificat, se r\u0103zbun\u0103, afect\u00e2nd stabilitatea lumii \u00een care tr\u0103im.<\/p>\n<p>V\u0103 vorbesc despre aceste lucruri aparent ancorate \u00een truism deoarece vin vremuri complicate. \u00cen contextul schimb\u0103rilor geopolitice actuale, dup\u0103 ce se va \u00eencheia zvonul de tun, va trebui s\u0103 redefinim educa\u021bia datorat\u0103 (nu doar acordat\u0103) celor mici, spa\u021biile \u00eeng\u0103duite celor mai mari, drepturile celor mul\u021bi \u0219i limitele celor pu\u021bini. Va trebui s\u0103 stabilim corect, f\u0103r\u0103 franjuri \u0219i vol\u0103na\u0219e, unde \u00eencepe \u0219i unde se \u00eencheie democra\u021bia, de la ce grad al severit\u0103\u021bii se poate vorbi despre coerci\u021bie\u2026 Ve\u021bi spune c\u0103 exact de astea nu avem nevoie acum, c\u00e2nd lucrurile sunt at\u00e2t de tulburi. V\u0103 voi r\u0103spunde c\u0103 tocmai astfel de momente dau na\u0219tere la grave confuzii, situa\u021biile turbionare fiind cele care par s\u0103 justifice relax\u0103ri nepermise ori abuzuri de nedorit. Altfel spus, \u00een vreme de furtun\u0103 te preg\u0103te\u0219ti pentru activit\u0103\u021bile din perioadele \u00eensorite. Atunci c\u00e2nd \u00eenc\u0103 mai po\u021bi s\u0103 determini ce e r\u0103u \u0219i ce e bine. Deoarece, mai t\u00e2rziu, se va hot\u0103r\u00ee totul pentru tine \u2013 viitorul, \u00een care vei asculta cuminte \u0219i vei saluta, cu m\u00e2na la cozoroc. \u0218i, sincer, via\u021ba e complex\u0103 inclusiv a\u0219a cum se prezint\u0103 acum. Dar c\u00e2nd nu mai ai ce face?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[analyse_source url=&#8221;https:\/\/opiniabuzau.ro\/dar-cand-nu-mai-ai-ce-face\/&#8221;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[analyse_image type=&#8221;featured&#8221; src=&#8221;https:\/\/opiniabuzau.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Alexandru-Pripon-si-mai-nou-scaled.webp&#8221;] Am scris recent despre \u00eentrebarea cu t\u00e2lc a fostului meu diriginte: \u201eCe faci c\u00e2nd n-ai ce face?\u201d. Am l\u0103murit, foarte pe scurt, \u00een ce m\u0103sur\u0103 consider extrem de important at\u00e2t timpul liber (dedicat sinelui), c\u00e2t \u0219i asocierea acestuia cu activit\u0103\u021bi ziditoare de cuget \u0219i spirit. Ba chiar am men\u021bionat faptul c\u0103 interoga\u021bia [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2245269","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-politics"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2245269","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2245269"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2245269\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2245269"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2245269"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2245269"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}