{"id":2240739,"date":"2026-11-06T00:00:25","date_gmt":"2026-11-05T21:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/?p=2240739"},"modified":"2026-11-06T00:00:25","modified_gmt":"2026-11-05T21:00:25","slug":"copiii-care-devin-terapeutii-parintilor-pot-plati-un-pret-greu-la-maturitate-ce-arata-un-nou-studiu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/?p=2240739","title":{"rendered":"Copiii care devin \u201eterapeu\u021bii\u201d p\u0103rin\u021bilor pot pl\u0103ti un pre\u021b greu la maturitate. Ce arat\u0103 un nou studiu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[analyse_image type=&#8221;featured&#8221; src=&#8221;https:\/\/cdn.adh.reperio.news\/image-8\/8c4657b4-6eff-45bc-9ff2-f0ca8cf0bf72\/index.jpeg?p=f%3Djpeg%26w%3D1200%26h%3D630%26r%3Dcover&#8221;]<\/p>\n<article class=\"svelte-x63bga\">\n<nav>\n<ul class=\"breadcrump svelte-1pk9a69\">\n<li class=\"svelte-1pk9a69\"><a href=\"https:\/\/adevarul.ro\/\" title=\"Adev\u0103rul\" class=\"svelte-1pk9a69\">Home<\/a><\/li>\n<li class=\"svelte-1pk9a69\"><a href=\"https:\/\/adevarul.ro\/stiri-interne\" class=\"svelte-1pk9a69\">\u0218tiri Interne<\/a><\/li>\n<li class=\"svelte-1pk9a69\"><a href=\"https:\/\/adevarul.ro\/stiri-interne\/societate\" class=\"svelte-1pk9a69\">Societate<\/a><\/li>\n<li class=\"svelte-1pk9a69\"><a href=\"https:\/\/adevarul.ro\/stiri-interne\/societate\/copiii-care-devin-terapeutii-parintilor-pot-2568962.html\" class=\"svelte-1pk9a69\">Copiii care devin \u201eterapeu\u021bii\u201d p\u0103rin\u021bilor pot pl\u0103ti un pre\u021b greu la maturitate. Ce arat\u0103 un nou studiu<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/nav>\n<p><main class=\"svelte-x63bga\"><\/p>\n<p>Copiii care ajung s\u0103-\u0219i consoleze p\u0103rin\u021bii \u0219i s\u0103 se simt\u0103 responsabili pentru problemele lor emo\u021bionale pot resim\u021bi efectele \u0219i la maturitate. Un studiu recent asociaz\u0103 aceast\u0103 inversare a rolurilor cu simptomele depresive, iar speciali\u0219tii explic\u0103 pentru \u201eAdev\u0103rul\u201d cum poate fi recunoscut \u0219i prevenit fenomenul.<\/p>\n<div class=\"container-image  svelte-1xbw4f3\"><source type=\"image\/webp\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.adh.reperio.news\/image-8\/8c4657b4-6eff-45bc-9ff2-f0ca8cf0bf72\/index.jpeg?p=a%3D1%26co%3D1.05%26w%3D1400%26h%3D750%26r%3Dcontain%26f%3Dwebp 1400w\" media=\"(min-width: 1400px)\" \/><\/p>\n<div class=\"caption svelte-1xbw4f3\"><span class=\"captionText svelte-1xbw4f3\">Copiii pot prelua poverile emo\u021bionale ale p\u0103rin\u021bilor <span class=\"source svelte-1xbw4f3\">Foto: Pixabay<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h2>C\u00e2nd copilul devine confidentul p\u0103rintelui<\/h2>\n<p>Un p\u0103rinte care \u00eei poveste\u0219te copilului despre o zi dificil\u0103 nu face neap\u0103rat ceva gre\u0219it. Problemele apar atunci c\u00e2nd discu\u021biile despre conflictele conjugale, frustr\u0103ri sau singur\u0103tate devin frecvente, iar copilul \u00eencepe s\u0103 simt\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 solu\u021bii \u0219i s\u0103 <a href=\"https:\/\/adevarul.ro\/dezvoltare-personala\/relatii\/trebuie-sa-i-spun-eu-tot-ce-are-de-facut-povara-2564258.html\">\u00eel lini\u0219teasc\u0103 pe adult.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><i>\u201e\u00cen psihologie, acest fenomen este cunoscut sub numele de parentificare emo\u021bional\u0103: copilul ajunge s\u0103 ocupe un rol de \u00eengrijitor emo\u021bional, care apar\u021bine adultului\u201d, <\/i>explic\u0103 Laura G\u0103van, psihoterapeut cognitiv-comportamental, pentru \u201eAdev\u0103rul\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Specialista arat\u0103 c\u0103 diferen\u021ba dintre apropierea s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 \u0219i inversarea rolurilor poate fi observat\u0103 inclusiv \u00een felul \u00een care p\u0103rintele \u00ee\u0219i exprim\u0103 suferin\u021ba.<\/p>\n<p><i>\u201eDe exemplu, este s\u0103n\u0103tos ca un p\u0103rinte s\u0103 spun\u0103: \u00abAm avut o zi dificil\u0103, sunt pu\u021bin trist, dar voi g\u0103si o solu\u021bie\u00bb. \u00cen schimb, este problematic s\u0103 \u00eei spun\u0103: \u00abNu mai pot, numai tu m\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi, nu \u0219tiu ce m-a\u0219 face f\u0103r\u0103 tine\u00bb,\u201d<\/i> adaug\u0103 ea.<\/p>\n<p>Psihologul Olga Ghi\u021bac atrage aten\u021bia c\u0103 un copil aflat \u00eentr-o asemenea situa\u021bie poate p\u0103rea mai matur dec\u00e2t cei de v\u00e2rsta lui. Este responsabil, atent la ceilal\u021bi \u0219i rareori \u00ee\u0219i exprim\u0103 nemul\u021bumirile, comportamente pentru care poate primi chiar laude din partea adul\u021bilor.<\/p>\n<p><i>\u201eUneori, ace\u0219ti copii sunt chiar l\u0103uda\u021bi pentru maturitatea lor, f\u0103r\u0103 ca adul\u021bii s\u0103 observe c\u0103 \u00een spatele acestui comportament exist\u0103 o responsabilitate mult prea mare pentru v\u00e2rsta lor\u201d,<\/i> completeaz\u0103 acesta.<\/p>\n<h2>Copilul care are grij\u0103 de to\u021bi poate deveni adultul care se neglijeaz\u0103<\/h2>\n<p>Consecin\u021bele parentific\u0103rii pot ap\u0103rea mult dup\u0103 \u00eencheierea copil\u0103riei. Persoanele care au crescut \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 previn\u0103 conflictele sau s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i protejeze p\u0103rin\u021bii pot \u00eent\u00e2mpina dificult\u0103\u021bi \u00een a spune \u201enu\u201d, \u00een a cere ajutor sau \u00een a construi rela\u021bii echilibrate.<\/p>\n<p><i>\u201ePoate deveni adultul care \u00ee\u0219i cere scuze excesiv, care se simte responsabil pentru emo\u021biile partenerului, care \u00eencearc\u0103 permanent s\u0103 evite conflictele sau care intr\u0103 \u00een rela\u021bii \u00een care ofer\u0103 mult mai mult dec\u00e2t prime\u0219te\u201d, <\/i>explic\u0103 Laura G\u0103van.<\/p>\n<p>Olga Ghi\u021bac observ\u0103 c\u0103 aceast\u0103 experien\u021b\u0103 poate influen\u021ba inclusiv alegerea rolului pe care persoana \u00eel ocup\u0103 \u00een rela\u021biile de cuplu.<\/p>\n<p><i>\u201eUneori, ace\u0219ti adul\u021bi sunt extrem de responsabili, independen\u021bi \u0219i performan\u021bi, dar \u00een spatele acestei maturit\u0103\u021bi se poate afla un copil care a fost nevoit s\u0103 creasc\u0103 prea devreme\u201d,<\/i> continu\u0103 ea.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"related-inline svelte-78g0vl\" data-gtrack=\"{&quot;event&quot;:&quot;utm_click&quot;,&quot;data&quot;:{&quot;event_category&quot;:&quot;article_related&quot;}}\" href=\"https:\/\/adevarul.ro\/stil-de-viata\/viata-de-cuplu\/comportamentele-toxice-ale-parintilor-care-2082196.html\" title=\"Alt articol de interes pentru tine\"><span class=\"inline-title svelte-78g0vl\">Comportamentele toxice ale p\u0103rin\u0163ilor care determin\u0103 copiii s\u0103 devin\u0103 adul\u0163i disfunc\u0163ionali<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Totu\u0219i, experien\u021ba parentific\u0103rii nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 un copil va dezvolta inevitabil depresie. Conteaz\u0103 durata \u0219i intensitatea situa\u021biei, celelalte vulnerabilit\u0103\u021bi \u0219i sprijinul emo\u021bional disponibil.<\/p>\n<h2>Ce arat\u0103 studiul despre narcisismul p\u0103rin\u021bilor \u0219i depresie<\/h2>\n<p>Cercetarea realizat\u0103 de Elif Cimsir \u0219i Ashley Hansen-Brown, publicat\u0103 \u00een octombrie 2026 \u00een revista Personality and Individual Differences, a analizat rela\u021bia dintre narcisismul vulnerabil perceput la p\u0103rin\u021bi, dependen\u021ba emo\u021bional\u0103 a acestora de copii \u0219i simptomele depresive la maturitate.<\/p>\n<p>Rezultatele, ob\u021binute pe e\u0219antioane de participan\u021bi din Statele Unite \u0219i Turcia, au ar\u0103tat c\u0103 persoanele care \u00ee\u0219i percepeau p\u0103rin\u021bii ca av\u00e2nd mai multe tr\u0103s\u0103turi de narcisism vulnerabil raportau \u0219i o implicare emo\u021bional\u0103 nepotrivit\u0103 \u00een problemele acestora. La r\u00e2ndul s\u0103u, aceast\u0103 experien\u021b\u0103 era asociat\u0103 cu mai multe simptome depresive. Rela\u021bia statistic\u0103 a fost observat\u0103 \u00een ambele \u021b\u0103ri. <\/p>\n<p>Narcisismul vulnerabil se poate manifesta prin nesiguran\u021b\u0103, sensibilitate accentuat\u0103 la critic\u0103 \u0219i nevoie constant\u0103 de validare. Laura G\u0103van explic\u0103 faptul c\u0103 un asemenea p\u0103rinte poate ajunge s\u0103 \u00eei transmit\u0103 copilului c\u0103 independen\u021ba sa reprezint\u0103 o form\u0103 de respingere: <i>\u201e\u00centr-o astfel de dinamic\u0103, copilul poate ajunge s\u0103 cread\u0103 c\u0103 independen\u021ba lui este o form\u0103 de abandon \u0219i c\u0103 iubirea presupune s\u0103 renun\u021be la propriile nevoi pentru a nu-l r\u0103ni pe cel\u0103lalt.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Autorii cercet\u0103rii subliniaz\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 c\u0103 rezultatele nu demonstreaz\u0103 o rela\u021bie de cauzalitate. Datele provin din relat\u0103rile retrospective ale unor studen\u021bi, iar tr\u0103s\u0103turile p\u0103rin\u021bilor nu au fost stabilite prin diagnostic clinic. <\/p>\n<h2>Cum poate fi reparat\u0103 rela\u021bia<\/h2>\n<p>Pentru p\u0103rin\u021bi, primul pas este s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i asume propriile dificult\u0103\u021bi emo\u021bionale \u0219i s\u0103 caute sprijin \u00een rela\u021biile cu al\u021bi adul\u021bi, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eei transforme pe copii \u00een confiden\u021bi permanen\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>Olga Ghi\u021bac consider\u0103 c\u0103 educa\u021bia parental\u0103 \u0219i accesul la sprijin psihologic pot preveni asemenea situa\u021bii. \u201e\u00cen esen\u021b\u0103, un copil are nevoie de un p\u0103rinte care s\u0103 poat\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2ne adult chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd trece prin dificult\u0103\u021bi. Nu de un p\u0103rinte perfect, ci de unul care \u00ee\u0219i asum\u0103 propriile emo\u021bii, \u00ee\u0219i recunoa\u0219te gre\u0219elile \u0219i nu \u00eei cere copilului s\u0103 \u00eei poarte suferin\u021ba\u201d, subliniaz\u0103 ea.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru cei care au crescut deja \u00een acest rol, schimbarea poate \u00eencepe prin stabilirea unor limite \u00een rela\u021bia cu p\u0103rin\u021bii, inclusiv prin refuzul conversa\u021biilor care \u00eei cople\u0219esc. Sentimentul de vinov\u0103\u021bie poate ap\u0103rea tocmai pentru c\u0103 au fost obi\u0219nui\u021bi s\u0103 considere nevoile celorlal\u021bi mai importante dec\u00e2t propriile nevoi.<\/p>\n<p><i>\u201eUn adult poate s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i iubeasc\u0103 p\u0103rintele f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eei fie terapeut, salvator sau sprijin emo\u021bional exclusiv. 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