{"id":2042087,"date":"2026-07-14T05:01:26","date_gmt":"2026-07-14T02:01:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/?p=2042087"},"modified":"2026-07-14T05:01:26","modified_gmt":"2026-07-14T02:01:26","slug":"ce-ramane-dupa-un-festival-perspectiva-unui-psiholog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/?p=2042087","title":{"rendered":"Ce r\u0103m\u00e2ne dup\u0103 un festival &#8211; perspectiva unui psiholog"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[analyse_image type=&#8221;featured&#8221; src=&#8221;https:\/\/cdn.adh.reperio.news\/image-f\/f4f347f7-5090-4bb5-b597-c9bdc0d7776c\/index.jpeg?p=f%3Djpeg%26w%3D1200%26h%3D630%26r%3Dcover&#8221;]<\/p>\n<article class=\"svelte-63r2dw\">\n<nav>\n<ul class=\"breadcrump svelte-1j3umxo\">\n<li class=\"svelte-1j3umxo\"><a href=\"\/\" title=\"Adev\u0103rul\" class=\"svelte-1j3umxo\">Home<\/a><\/li>\n<li class=\"svelte-1j3umxo\"><a href=\"\/blogurile-adevarul\" class=\"svelte-1j3umxo\">Opinii<\/a><\/li>\n<li class=\"svelte-1j3umxo\"><a href=\"https:\/\/adevarul.ro\/blogurile-adevarul\/ce-ramane-dupa-un-festival-perspectiva-unui-2542664.html\" class=\"svelte-1j3umxo\">Ce r\u0103m\u00e2ne dup\u0103 un festival &#8211; perspectiva unui psiholog<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/nav>\n<p><main class=\"svelte-63r2dw\"><\/p>\n<p>Ca psiholog, v\u0103d adesea partea pe care Instagram \u0219i TikTok nu o posteaz\u0103 niciodat\u0103 despre un festival.\u00a0Nu v\u0103d doar videoclipurile cu arti\u0219ti, artificii, moshpit-uri, zeci de mii de tineri care danseaz\u0103 frenetic \u0219i se distreaz\u0103 pan\u0103 diminea\u021ba. Sau vorba unei mame: tineri care s-au prins \u00eentr-o hor\u0103 la 1 diminea\u021ba. Poate fi emo\u021bionant dar&#8230;cam at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n<div class=\"container-image  svelte-jd4qiv\"><source type=\"image\/webp\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.adh.reperio.news\/image-f\/f4f347f7-5090-4bb5-b597-c9bdc0d7776c\/index.jpeg?p=a%3D1%26co%3D1.05%26w%3D1400%26h%3D750%26r%3Dcontain%26f%3Dwebp 1400w\" media=\"(min-width: 1400px)\" \/><\/p>\n<div class=\"caption\">FOTO Arhiv\u0103<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Noi nu vedem \u00een online prietenii care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 \u021bin\u0103 \u00een bra\u021be pe cineva care nu mai poate sta \u00een picioare, nu vedem lacrimile de dup\u0103 ce muzica se opre\u0219te, suferin\u021bele interioare sau r\u0103nile fiec\u0103rui copil ahtiat dup\u0103 clipe de fericire.<\/p>\n<p>Ca psiholog, tocmai acea parte invizibil\u0103 \u0219i rureroas\u0103 m\u0103 preocup\u0103 \u0219i m\u0103 \u00eengrijoreaz\u0103. Oamenii ferici\u021bi nu ajung la psiholog. <\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 tragi semnale de alarm\u0103, dac\u0103 realizezi analize de specialitate \u00ee\u021bi iei rapid hate \u0219i \u00eenjur\u0103turi la greu, inclusiv pe adresele personale de comunicare&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Vreau s\u0103 spun altceva. Ca psiholog, v\u0103d atacurile de panic\u0103 de dup\u0103. V\u0103d anxietatea care apare dup\u0103 patru zile f\u0103r\u0103 somn \u0219i un drum de zeci de ore. V\u0103d vina, ru\u0219inea, rela\u021biile distruse, accidentele, r\u0103nile emo\u021bionale \u0219i tinerii care-mi spun: \u201e<i>N-am crezut c\u0103 mi se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla tocmai mie. Cu ce am gre\u0219it!.&#8221; <\/i><\/p>\n<p>V\u0103d regretele c\u0103 au mers acolo, v\u0103d dezam\u0103girile, tr\u0103d\u0103rile, desp\u0103r\u021birile \u0219i suferin\u021bele. V\u0103d triste\u021bea \u0219i deprimarea celor care au visat tot anul la festival ca la cea mai mare distrac\u021bie ever, au ajuns acolo, au cheltuit bani \u0219i speran\u021be, au depus eforturi, au \u00eencercat s\u0103 se distreze, sau chiar au sim\u021bit c\u0103 s-au distrat, dar la final au r\u0103mas cu aceea\u0219i triste\u021be \u0219i suferin\u021b\u0103, sau chiar mai mult\u0103. <\/p>\n<p>NU distrac\u021bia e problema, s\u0103 ne \u00een\u021belegem. Am spus c\u0103 unii tineri (mai ales cei peste 18, 20 de ani) pot s\u0103 se fereasc\u0103 mai u\u0219or de riscurile grave \u0219i s\u0103 fie \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103 al\u0103turi de prietenii lor, comparativ cu cei mici. Majoritatea se \u00eentorc acas\u0103 satisf\u0103cu\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cens\u0103, problema \u00eencepe \u00een momentul \u00een care sim\u021bi ca t\u00e2n\u0103r c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 demonstrezi ceva, c\u0103 d-aia ai mers la festival cu orice pre\u021b \u0219i ai t\u00e2njit \u0219i ai depus eforturi s\u0103 ajungi acolo. S\u0103 dau c\u00e2teva exemple.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; C\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 bei mai mult dec\u00e2t ceilal\u021bi, s\u0103 le ar\u0103\u021bi c\u0103 e\u0219ti rezistent la b\u0103utur\u0103, s\u0103 bei mai mult dec\u00e2t ai b\u0103ut vreodat\u0103, sau s\u0103 bei pentru prima dat\u0103, s\u0103 te \u00eembe\u021bi \u00een fiecare sear\u0103, c\u0103 d-ia ai mers acolo \u0219i nu po\u021bi s\u0103 fii fraierul grupului t\u0103u de prieteni. <\/p>\n<p>&#8211; C\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 \u00eencerci orice, c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 te combini cu cineva, c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 faci sex neprotejat, c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 rezi\u0219ti toata noaptea f\u0103r\u0103 somn, c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 filmezi tot, s\u0103 postezi&#8230;\u00een final c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fii &#8220;legend\u0103&#8221;. Apropo, la ce folos s\u0103 mergi la festival dac\u0103 nu postezi zilnic pe Insta? Te-ai dus degeaba&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Iar dac\u0103 e\u0219ti fat\u0103, apar mult mai multe presiuni \u0219i riscuri.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0103 nu pari \u201efi\u021boas\u0103\u201d dac\u0103 refuzi un pahar, o gur\u0103, un fum, un joint, o liniu\u021b\u0103, doar una, doar o dat\u0103. S\u0103 nu superi pe nimeni dac\u0103 spui \u201enu\u201d. S\u0103 accep\u021bi aten\u021bia unor necunoscu\u021bi doar ca s\u0103 nu fii considerat\u0103 \u201eprea rece\u201d. S\u0103 pleci cu b\u0103ie\u021bi pe care \u00eei cuno\u0219ti de c\u00e2teva ore pentru c\u0103 \u201etoat\u0103 lumea face asta\u201d \u0219i tu nu vrei s\u0103 fii proast\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>V-a\u021bi gandit c\u0103 festivalurile de muzic\u0103 sunt locurile \u00een care se \u00eentampl\u0103 cele mai multe agresiuni sexuale, abuzuri sexuale, h\u0103r\u021buiri \u0219i violuri? Iar consecin\u021bele r\u0103man ascunse: de la teama unei sarcini nedorite (sau iminen\u021ba ei) la trauma unui viol? Fata se simte vinovat\u0103 \u0219i nu are puterea s\u0103 spun\u0103 nim\u0103nui prin ce a trecut, nici luni dup\u0103 acest festival.<\/p>\n<p>V-a\u021bi gandit c\u0103 festivalurile de muzic\u0103 reprezint\u0103 tocmai mediul ideal unde libertatea mult visat\u0103 a adolescentului nu are limite.<\/p>\n<p>Un festival ar trebui s\u0103 lase amintiri frumoase, nu traume. \u00cens\u0103, mai ales noaptea, mai ales dup\u0103 un consum de alcool rezisten\u021bele scad, s\u0103 spui \u201dnu\u201d e foarte greu \u0219i deseori nici nu-\u021bi dai seama cum te duce valul \u0219i a doua zi ai regrete mari.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen haosul unui festival, alcoolul, lipsa de somn \u0219i \u00eencrederea acordat\u0103 unor necunoscu\u021bi pot cre\u0219te considerabil riscul de a deveni vulnerabil\u0103 \u00een fa\u021ba abuzului, manipul\u0103rii sau violen\u021bei. O singur\u0103 decizie luat\u0103 sub presiunea grupului, a alcoolului sau a dorin\u021bei de a fi acceptat\u0103 poate schimba o noapte de distrac\u021bie \u00eentr-o experien\u021b\u0103 traumatic\u0103. <\/p>\n<p>\u00cen realitate, adev\u0103rata libertate nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 spui &#8220;da&#8221; la orice, \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 po\u021bi spune \u0219i &#8220;nu&#8221;, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 sim\u021bi c\u0103 pierzi ceva \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te sim\u021bi prost sau slab. <\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 ai ajuns la festival ai grij\u0103 de tine \u0219i de prietenii t\u0103i, hidrateaz\u0103-te, dormi c\u00e2nd po\u021bi, nu accepta b\u0103uturi sau substan\u021be de la necunoscu\u021bi \u0219i dac\u0103 vezi pe cineva \u00een pericol, nu filma, ci ajut\u0103-l.<\/p>\n<p>Sute de p\u0103rin\u021bi \u0219i-au luat cazare \u00een apropiere cu speran\u021ba c\u0103 \u201ddac\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ceva r\u0103u\u201d, ei vor fi acolo. \u00cen realitate, dac\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ceva r\u0103u, adolescen\u021bii nu-\u0219i vor anun\u021ba prima dat\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii. S\u0103 nu ne min\u021bim. De ru\u0219ine, de jen\u0103, de team\u0103, (\u201dlas\u0103 c\u0103 trece pan\u0103 diminea\u021b\u0103\u201d), de teama unor consecin\u021be (\u201ddac\u0103-mi zice c\u0103 mergem acas\u0103 \u0219i pierd urm\u0103toarele concerte\u201d) \u0219i din alte zeci de motive&#8230;adolescentul nu-\u021bi va spune ce nasoale a f\u0103cut&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Vreau s\u0103 re\u021binem ceva. Festivalul dureaz\u0103 c\u00e2teva zile \u00eens\u0103 creierul t\u0103u trebuie s\u0103 te duc\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 zeci de ani. Ai grij\u0103 de el, distrac\u021bia trece, consecin\u021bele pot r\u0103m\u00e2ne.<\/p>\n<p>Dup\u0103 festival, sper s\u0103 fie doar despre pove\u0219ti \u0219i experien\u021be frumoase, nu despre vindecarea unor r\u0103ni care puteau fi evitate.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i despre toate aceste lucruri nu se vorbe\u0219te&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p><\/main><\/p>\n<footer class=\"svelte-63r2dw\">\n<div class=\"meta svelte-63r2dw\">\n<div class=\"authors svelte-63r2dw\"><span class=\"names svelte-63r2dw\"><a href=\"\/author\/933\" rel=\"author\" class=\"svelte-63r2dw\">Mihai Cop\u0103ceanu<\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"tags svelte-12okeyl\"><span class=\"tags-label metaFont svelte-12okeyl\">Cite\u0219te mai multe despre<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"tags-list svelte-12okeyl\"><a href=\"\/tag\/festival\" title=\"Ultimele \u0219tiri despre festival\" class=\"tag-pill svelte-12okeyl\">festival<\/a><a href=\"\/tag\/adolescenti\" title=\"Ultimele \u0219tiri despre adolescenti\" class=\"tag-pill svelte-12okeyl\">adolescenti<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><a class=\"moreFromCategory svelte-63r2dw\" href=\"\/blogurile-adevarul\" title=\"Opinii\">Mai multe din <strong class=\"svelte-63r2dw\">Opinii<\/strong> \u203a<\/a><\/footer>\n<\/article>\n<p>[analyse_source url=&#8221;https:\/\/adevarul.ro\/blogurile-adevarul\/ce-ramane-dupa-un-festival-perspectiva-unui-2542664.html&#8221;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[analyse_image type=&#8221;featured&#8221; src=&#8221;https:\/\/cdn.adh.reperio.news\/image-f\/f4f347f7-5090-4bb5-b597-c9bdc0d7776c\/index.jpeg?p=f%3Djpeg%26w%3D1200%26h%3D630%26r%3Dcover&#8221;] Home Opinii Ce r\u0103m\u00e2ne dup\u0103 un festival &#8211; perspectiva unui psiholog Ca psiholog, v\u0103d adesea partea pe care Instagram \u0219i TikTok nu o posteaz\u0103 niciodat\u0103 despre un festival.\u00a0Nu v\u0103d doar videoclipurile cu arti\u0219ti, artificii, moshpit-uri, zeci de mii de tineri care danseaz\u0103 frenetic \u0219i se distreaz\u0103 pan\u0103 diminea\u021ba. 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