{"id":1885707,"date":"2026-04-16T13:28:00","date_gmt":"2026-04-16T10:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/?p=1885707"},"modified":"2026-04-16T13:28:00","modified_gmt":"2026-04-16T10:28:00","slug":"wait-whose-life-is-frictionless","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/?p=1885707","title":{"rendered":"Wait, whose life is frictionless?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[analyse_image type=&#8221;featured&#8221; src=&#8221;https:\/\/images-prod.dazeddigital.com\/1170\/244-300-1170-780\/azure\/dazed-prod\/1440\/3\/1443430.jpg&#8221;]<\/p>\n<article class=\"main-article standard \">\n<div class=\"article-main-content article-wrapper has-media-but-its-an-image\" data-status=\"loaded\" data-primary-article=\"true\" data-url=\"\/life-culture\/article\/70097\/1\/wait-whose-life-is-frictionless-frictionmaxxing-inconvenience\" data-article-id=\"70097\">\n<header class=\"article-header has-landscape-image no-media\">\n<div class=\"wrapper dg-max-width\">\n<div class=\"inner\">\n<figure class=\"main-img has-figcaption\" data-img-aspect-ratio-type=\"landscape\" data-img-aspect-ratio=\"1.33\" data-template=\"Standard Article\"><span class=\"has-css-custom-props image-container\" data-aspect-ratio-type=\"landscape\"><span class=\"preserve-aspect-ratio\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Perfect Days (2023)\" class=\"img\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/images-prod.dazeddigital.com\/1400\/azure\/dazed-prod\/1440\/3\/1443430.jpg\" width=\"1440\"><\/span><\/span><figcaption class=\"img-caption\"><span class=\"inner\"><span class=\"credit\">Perfect Days (2023)<\/span><\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<aside class=\"meta\">\n<div class=\"inner\"><time datetime=\"2026-04-16T13:28:00+00:00\" class=\"timestamp\" title=\"16 April 2026\"><span class=\"month\">April<\/span>\u00a0<br \/>\n<span class=\"day\" data-day=\"16\">16,<\/span>\u00a0<br \/>\n<span class=\"year\">2026<\/span><\/time><\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<div class=\"titles\">\n<div class=\"tags\">\n<div class=\"sections\"><a class=\"category vertical - life-culture\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dazeddigital.com\/life-culture\">Life &amp; Culture<\/a><br \/>\n\/<br \/>\n<a class=\"series\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dazeddigital.com\/feature\">Feature<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"standard-tag-container\"><a class=\"standard-category\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dazeddigital.com\/life-culture\">Life &amp; Culture<\/a> \/<br \/>\n<a class=\"standard-series\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dazeddigital.com\/feature\">Feature<\/a><\/div>\n<h1 class=\"title\"><span>Wait, whose life <span class=\"nowrap\">is frictionless?<\/span><\/span><\/h1>\n<div class=\"standfirst\">\n<h2>Frictionmaxxing, an active rebellion against today\u2019s technology-fueled convenience culture, is a hot topic online \u2013 but friction is unevenly distributed, making it not as simple as just <span class=\"nowrap\">\u2018choosing inconvenience\u2019<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<p><time datetime=\"2026-04-16T13:28:00+00:00\" class=\"timestamp\" title=\"16 April 2026\"><span class=\"month\">April<\/span>\u00a0<br \/>\n<span class=\"day\" data-day=\"16\">16,<\/span>\u00a0<br \/>\n<span class=\"year\">2026<\/span><\/time><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><time datetime=\"2026-04-16T13:28:00+00:00\" class=\"timestamp\" title=\"16 April 2026\"><span class=\"month\">April<\/span>\u00a0<br \/>\n<span class=\"day\" data-day=\"16\">16,<\/span>\u00a0<br \/>\n<span class=\"year\">2026<\/span><\/time><\/p>\n<div class=\"providers\">\n<div class=\"contributors\"><span class=\"contributor\" data-contributor-role=\"Text\"><span class=\"contributor-role\">Text<\/span><a class=\"contributor-name\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dazeddigital.com\/user\/laurapitcher\">Laura Pitcher<\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/header>\n<div class=\"article-body-container\">\n<div class=\"article-body wrapper\">\n<div class=\"embed-content\" data-embed-type=\"raw-html\">\n<p><span>I am supposed to be adding more friction into my life \u2013 at least that\u2019s what the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@olivia.unplugged\/video\/7626049094657608993\"><span>#frictionmaxxers<\/span><\/a><span> tell me. Over the past few months, friction has become a hot topic. Frictionmaxxing, coined by Kathryn Jezer-Morton <\/span><span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thecut.com\/article\/brooding-friction-maxxing-new-years-2026-resolution.html\">in her piece<\/a>\u00a0for <em>The Cut<\/em><\/span><span><em>\u00a0<\/em>back in January, is an active rebellion against today\u2019s technology-fueled convenience culture. As Morton put it, embracing friction is not just about reducing your screen time; it\u2019s the process of \u201cbuilding up tolerance for \u2018inconvenience\u2019\u201d. It\u2019s walking to a restaurant and interacting with the owners, instead of ordering Uber Eats, or opening up a cookbook instead of sending ChatGPT photos of your fridge.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>All of these friction-building tasks are good things to do. We know that an\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/arxiv.org\/pdf\/2506.08872v1\">overreliance on AI<\/a><span>\u00a0can reduce critical thinking skills and that <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC6314044\/\">excessive phone use<\/a> can cause mental health problems<\/span><span>. The studies backing all this up only emphasise what many people are already feeling: the way we live our lives today doesn\u2019t feel good in our bodies. I\u2019ll speak for myself here: I know that I feel better when I go for a long walk and chat about the weather with my neighbours, but there are also days when it feels nearly impossible to spare a moment to actually get outside. And that\u2019s coming from someone who works on a laptop and has no kids. With all this talk of frictionmaxxing, it had me thinking: whose life is actually frictionless?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Much of today\u2019s talk online about friction takes the perspective of the person ordering food, not the delivery driver, whose day is full of friction. It doesn\u2019t factor in that there are different types of friction, or how unevenly today\u2019s sources of stress are distributed. While people in high-paying jobs figure out ways they can write creative ideas by hand instead of turning to AI, or restore antique furniture instead of buying something new, there are\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/theintercept.com\/2021\/03\/25\/amazon-drivers-pee-bottles-union\/\"><span>Amazon delivery drivers forced to pee in bottles<\/span><\/a><span>. Almost <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.investopedia.com\/most-americans-report-living-paycheck-to-paycheck-new-survey-finds-7970611\"><span>80 per cent\u00a0<\/span><\/a>of Americans<span>\u00a0live paycheck to paycheck, and a growing number are suffering from what <a href=\"https:\/\/www.newsweek.com\/americans-suffering-time-poverty-2083948\">experts<\/a>\u00a0<\/span><span>refer to as \u201ctime poverty\u201d, which means not having enough time for all the day\u2019s tasks, never mind for rest, learning or personal development.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"embed-content\" data-embed-type=\"media-tiktok\" data-id=\"7626049094657608993\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"embed-content\" data-embed-type=\"raw-html\">\n<p><span>By speaking about convenience culture as a choice everyone can opt in and out of, we forget that millions of Americans would love to spend time making muffins from scratch, but are too bogged down by friction to look to it as a source of personal fulfilment. Psychologist Mic Moshel, who goes by <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/thecyberpsychologist.com.au\/\"><span>The Cyber Psychologist<\/span><\/a><span> online, refers to the type of friction people want to reduce (being overworked, money troubles, health issues and more) as \u201cexhausting friction\u201d and the more beneficial types as \u201cproductive friction\u201d. Some people\u2019s lives are \u201cfrictionless\u201d precisely because they are outsourcing the more exhausting friction to low-wage workers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>\u201cThe friction is not being eliminated, it\u2019s being passed down the line. For the person who does physically or mentally exhausting work, scrolling or a mobile game can act as a pressure valve,\u201d says Moshel. \u201cThe product is engineered precisely for that moment, but because the brain is in this compromised state, it\u2019s now harder to disengage.\u201d It\u2019s a feedback loop where exhausting friction drives people towards frictionless tech as a relief, only for it to further deplete their cognitive capacity. As Moshel puts it: \u201cThe tech is filling that recovery window, without providing actual recovery.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span>\u201cThe friction is not being eliminated, it\u2019s being passed down the line, and for the person who does physically or mentally exhausting work, scrolling or a mobile game can act as a pressure valve&#8230; The tech is filling that recovery window, without providing actual recovery\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span>If most of the population can\u2019t choose to free themselves of exhausting friction, then the conversation around friction is really one about social structures, rather than personal choices, for the most part. As Dr Tracy Dennis-Tiwary, a professor of psychology and neuroscience at Hunter College and The City University of New York, e<\/span><span>xplains, convenience culture depends on an accepted trade-off: some people bear more friction so that others can experience less. \u201cHumans are suffering because we have privileged convenience above our humanity, when convenience disembodies us and anchors us away from our values,\u201d she says. \u201cWe need to feel that we have purpose and are connected, but there\u2019s so much fracturing that \u2013 not just technology, but also the way our institutions have let us down.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>While speaking to Dr Tracy Dennis-Tiwary, she asks me to think about what memories have brought me joy over the past two months. \u201cI promise you it wasn\u2019t pressing a button to get your Seamless order or using an AI filter to go through your emails more efficiently,\u201d she says. \u201cIt was when you got together with a bunch of friends, took a hike, got stuck in the rain or had a picnic under a tree.\u201d And she was right: those moments do make life feel worth living. But I know it\u2019s also not as simple as telling people to put down their phones. \u201cAll of us have to think about what type of friction moves us away from our values, and what moves us away from what we want to achieve in the world,\u201d Dr Dennis-Tiwary says.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"embed-content\" data-embed-type=\"media-tiktok\" data-id=\"7616218919568821535\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"embed-content\" data-embed-type=\"raw-html\">\n<p><span>If we know that productivity and optimisation culture are pulling us away from ourselves, what do we do when it feels inescapable? On a personal level, try to get off the hedonic treadmill in whatever ways you can. Ask yourself what makes your life worth living, as Dr Dennis-Tiwary suggested, then see if there are ways you can trade your phone for a book, your laptop for a notebook, or a night spent doomscrolling for a craft night with your friends. Reject AI suggestions when typing an email and take the long way around your Google search (actually reading the articles, not the summary). P<\/span><span>rotect your attention. It\u2019s a valuable resource. \u201cAlmost anything that\u2019s worth doing or considering, like having a conversation or asking yourself what you want to do with your life, requires problem-solving and a degree of attention,\u201d says Moshel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>On a collective level, be mindful of the friction you are offloading onto others, and recognise that our so-called \u201cfrictionless\u201d society, filled with frictionless tech, is built on the backs of those who have been forced to frictionmaxx (but not in the good way) for decades. Convenience culture is only alluring because it\u2019s designed to plug into the systems that are exhausting us, and, as Moshel points out, it\u2019s more difficult to notice the problematic loop developing when your attention is depleted. 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Get The Drop<\/h1>\n<div class=\"meta-row\">\n<p class=\"meta\">Get must-see stories direct to your inbox every weekday.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dazeddigital.com\/privacy-policy\" class=\"meta-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><br \/>\nPrivacy policy<br \/>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"confirmation\" aria-live=\"polite\">\n<p class=\"confirmation-title\">Thank you. You have been subscribed<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dazeddigital.com\/privacy-policy\" class=\"meta-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><br \/>\nPrivacy policy<br \/>\n<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<div class=\"article-body wrapper\">\n<div class=\"embed-content\" data-embed-type=\"raw-html\">\n<p><span>I am supposed to be adding more friction into my life \u2013 at least that\u2019s what the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@olivia.unplugged\/video\/7626049094657608993\"><span>#frictionmaxxers<\/span><\/a><span> tell me. Over the past few months, friction has become a hot topic. Frictionmaxxing, coined by Kathryn Jezer-Morton <\/span><span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thecut.com\/article\/brooding-friction-maxxing-new-years-2026-resolution.html\">in her piece<\/a>\u00a0for <em>The Cut<\/em><\/span><span><em>\u00a0<\/em>back in January, is an active rebellion against today\u2019s technology-fueled convenience culture. As Morton put it, embracing friction is not just about reducing your screen time; it\u2019s the process of \u201cbuilding up tolerance for \u2018inconvenience\u2019\u201d. It\u2019s walking to a restaurant and interacting with the owners, instead of ordering Uber Eats, or opening up a cookbook instead of sending ChatGPT photos of your fridge.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>All of these friction-building tasks are good things to do. We know that an\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/arxiv.org\/pdf\/2506.08872v1\">overreliance on AI<\/a><span>\u00a0can reduce critical thinking skills and that <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC6314044\/\">excessive phone use<\/a> can cause mental health problems<\/span><span>. The studies backing all this up only emphasise what many people are already feeling: the way we live our lives today doesn\u2019t feel good in our bodies. I\u2019ll speak for myself here: I know that I feel better when I go for a long walk and chat about the weather with my neighbours, but there are also days when it feels nearly impossible to spare a moment to actually get outside. And that\u2019s coming from someone who works on a laptop and has no kids. With all this talk of frictionmaxxing, it had me thinking: whose life is actually frictionless?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Much of today\u2019s talk online about friction takes the perspective of the person ordering food, not the delivery driver, whose day is full of friction. It doesn\u2019t factor in that there are different types of friction, or how unevenly today\u2019s sources of stress are distributed. While people in high-paying jobs figure out ways they can write creative ideas by hand instead of turning to AI, or restore antique furniture instead of buying something new, there are\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/theintercept.com\/2021\/03\/25\/amazon-drivers-pee-bottles-union\/\"><span>Amazon delivery drivers forced to pee in bottles<\/span><\/a><span>. Almost <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.investopedia.com\/most-americans-report-living-paycheck-to-paycheck-new-survey-finds-7970611\"><span>80 per cent\u00a0<\/span><\/a>of Americans<span>\u00a0live paycheck to paycheck, and a growing number are suffering from what <a href=\"https:\/\/www.newsweek.com\/americans-suffering-time-poverty-2083948\">experts<\/a>\u00a0<\/span><span>refer to as \u201ctime poverty\u201d, which means not having enough time for all the day\u2019s tasks, never mind for rest, learning or personal development.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"embed-content\" data-embed-type=\"media-tiktok\" data-id=\"7626049094657608993\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"embed-content\" data-embed-type=\"raw-html\">\n<p><span>By speaking about convenience culture as a choice everyone can opt in and out of, we forget that millions of Americans would love to spend time making muffins from scratch, but are too bogged down by friction to look to it as a source of personal fulfilment. Psychologist Mic Moshel, who goes by <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/thecyberpsychologist.com.au\/\"><span>The Cyber Psychologist<\/span><\/a><span> online, refers to the type of friction people want to reduce (being overworked, money troubles, health issues and more) as \u201cexhausting friction\u201d and the more beneficial types as \u201cproductive friction\u201d. Some people\u2019s lives are \u201cfrictionless\u201d precisely because they are outsourcing the more exhausting friction to low-wage workers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>\u201cThe friction is not being eliminated, it\u2019s being passed down the line. For the person who does physically or mentally exhausting work, scrolling or a mobile game can act as a pressure valve,\u201d says Moshel. \u201cThe product is engineered precisely for that moment, but because the brain is in this compromised state, it\u2019s now harder to disengage.\u201d It\u2019s a feedback loop where exhausting friction drives people towards frictionless tech as a relief, only for it to further deplete their cognitive capacity. As Moshel puts it: \u201cThe tech is filling that recovery window, without providing actual recovery.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span>\u201cThe friction is not being eliminated, it\u2019s being passed down the line, and for the person who does physically or mentally exhausting work, scrolling or a mobile game can act as a pressure valve&#8230; The tech is filling that recovery window, without providing actual recovery\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span>If most of the population can\u2019t choose to free themselves of exhausting friction, then the conversation around friction is really one about social structures, rather than personal choices, for the most part. As Dr Tracy Dennis-Tiwary, a professor of psychology and neuroscience at Hunter College and The City University of New York, e<\/span><span>xplains, convenience culture depends on an accepted trade-off: some people bear more friction so that others can experience less. \u201cHumans are suffering because we have privileged convenience above our humanity, when convenience disembodies us and anchors us away from our values,\u201d she says. \u201cWe need to feel that we have purpose and are connected, but there\u2019s so much fracturing that \u2013 not just technology, but also the way our institutions have let us down.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>While speaking to Dr Tracy Dennis-Tiwary, she asks me to think about what memories have brought me joy over the past two months. \u201cI promise you it wasn\u2019t pressing a button to get your Seamless order or using an AI filter to go through your emails more efficiently,\u201d she says. \u201cIt was when you got together with a bunch of friends, took a hike, got stuck in the rain or had a picnic under a tree.\u201d And she was right: those moments do make life feel worth living. But I know it\u2019s also not as simple as telling people to put down their phones. \u201cAll of us have to think about what type of friction moves us away from our values, and what moves us away from what we want to achieve in the world,\u201d Dr Dennis-Tiwary says.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"embed-content\" data-embed-type=\"media-tiktok\" data-id=\"7616218919568821535\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"embed-content\" data-embed-type=\"raw-html\">\n<p><span>If we know that productivity and optimisation culture are pulling us away from ourselves, what do we do when it feels inescapable? On a personal level, try to get off the hedonic treadmill in whatever ways you can. Ask yourself what makes your life worth living, as Dr Dennis-Tiwary suggested, then see if there are ways you can trade your phone for a book, your laptop for a notebook, or a night spent doomscrolling for a craft night with your friends. Reject AI suggestions when typing an email and take the long way around your Google search (actually reading the articles, not the summary). P<\/span><span>rotect your attention. It\u2019s a valuable resource. \u201cAlmost anything that\u2019s worth doing or considering, like having a conversation or asking yourself what you want to do with your life, requires problem-solving and a degree of attention,\u201d says Moshel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>On a collective level, be mindful of the friction you are offloading onto others, and recognise that our so-called \u201cfrictionless\u201d society, filled with frictionless tech, is built on the backs of those who have been forced to frictionmaxx (but not in the good way) for decades. Convenience culture is only alluring because it\u2019s designed to plug into the systems that are exhausting us, and, as Moshel points out, it\u2019s more difficult to notice the problematic loop developing when your attention is depleted. In other words, don\u2019t blame yourself (or others) if you feel too burnt out to frictionmaxx. After all, people need to be free of exhaustive friction to even start to think about productive friction to begin with.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"newsletter-inline-last\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-small\">\n<div class=\"inner\">\n<h1 class=\"newsletter-title\">Escape the algorithm! Get The Drop<\/h1>\n<div class=\"meta-row\">\n<p class=\"meta\">Get must-see stories direct to your inbox every weekday.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dazeddigital.com\/privacy-policy\" class=\"meta-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><br \/>\nPrivacy policy<br \/>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"confirmation\" aria-live=\"polite\">\n<p class=\"confirmation-title\">Thank you. You have been subscribed<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dazeddigital.com\/privacy-policy\" class=\"meta-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><br \/>\nPrivacy policy<br \/>\n<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>[analyse_source url=&#8221;https:\/\/www.dazeddigital.com\/life-culture\/article\/70097\/1\/wait-whose-life-is-frictionless-frictionmaxxing-inconvenience&#8221;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[analyse_image type=&#8221;featured&#8221; src=&#8221;https:\/\/images-prod.dazeddigital.com\/1170\/244-300-1170-780\/azure\/dazed-prod\/1440\/3\/1443430.jpg&#8221;] Perfect Days (2023) April\u00a0 16,\u00a0 2026 Life &amp; Culture \/ Feature Life &amp; Culture \/ Feature Wait, whose life is frictionless? Frictionmaxxing, an active rebellion against today\u2019s technology-fueled convenience culture, is a hot topic online \u2013 but friction is unevenly distributed, making it not as simple as just \u2018choosing inconvenience\u2019 April\u00a0 16,\u00a0 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[226,76],"class_list":["post-1885707","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-politics","tag-crawlmanager","tag-dazeddigital-com"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1885707","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1885707"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1885707\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1885707"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1885707"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1885707"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}