{"id":1884029,"date":"2026-04-15T17:45:15","date_gmt":"2026-04-15T14:45:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/?p=1884029"},"modified":"2026-04-15T17:45:15","modified_gmt":"2026-04-15T14:45:15","slug":"concluzia-unei-mame-dupa-ce-copiii-sai-au-crescut-regret-ca-i-am-inscris-la-atat-de-multe-activitati-cand-erau-mai-mici-lectia-pe-care-a-invatat-o","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/?p=1884029","title":{"rendered":"Concluzia unei mame dup\u0103 ce copiii s\u0103i au crescut: “Regret c\u0103 i-am \u00eenscris la at\u00e2t de multe activit\u0103\u021bi c\u00e2nd erau mai mici”. Lec\u021bia pe care a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat-o"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Concluzia unei mame dup\u0103 ce copiii s\u0103i au crescut: “Regret c\u0103 i-am \u00eenscris la at\u00e2t de multe activit\u0103\u021bi c\u00e2nd erau mai mici”. Lec\u021bia pe care a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat-o<\/h1>\n<\/div>\n
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Autor: Bogdan Atanasiu <\/a><\/span><\/div>\n
Miercuri, 15 Aprilie 2026, ora 16:22<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
1944 citiri<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Concluzia unei mame dup\u0103 ce copiii s\u0103i au crescut: \"Regret c\u0103 i-am \u00eenscris la at\u00e2t de multe activit\u0103\u021bi c\u00e2nd erau mai mici\". Lec\u021bia pe care a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat-o<\/a><\/p>\n
Copil care \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenoate FOTO Pixabay<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Tot mai mul\u021bi p\u0103rin\u021bi \u00eencarc\u0103 agenda copiilor \u00eenc\u0103 din primii ani de via\u021b\u0103, convin\u0219i c\u0103 activit\u0103\u021bile diverse \u00eei vor ajuta s\u0103 se dezvolte armonios. \u00cens\u0103, privind \u00een urm\u0103, o mam\u0103 spune c\u0103 graba, programul \u00eenc\u0103rcat \u0219i presiunea performan\u021bei au adus mai mult stres dec\u00e2t beneficii, dup\u0103 cum a relatat \u00eentr-un articol publicat de Business Insider.<\/p>\n

“Regret c\u0103 mi-am \u00eenscris copiii la at\u00e2t de multe activit\u0103\u021bi c\u00e2nd erau mai mici”<\/h2>\n

“Chiar nu au avut de c\u00e2\u0219tigat din faptul c\u0103 erau plimba\u021bi \u00een grab\u0103 dintr-un loc \u00een altul. Eu \u0219i so\u021bul meu am adoptat trei copii \u00een decurs de patru ani, iar la aproximativ trei ani dup\u0103 aceea am adoptat al patrulea copil. La vremea respectiv\u0103, aveam senza\u021bia c\u0103 munceam din zori \u0219i p\u00e2n\u0103\u2026 ei bine, toat\u0103 noaptea.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2nd s-a n\u0103scut copilul meu cel mare, p\u0103rea c\u0103 exista o presiune puternic\u0103, \u00een cercurile de parenting, de a-i \u00eenscrie pe copiii mici la activit\u0103\u021bi structurate, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 fac\u0103 muzic\u0103, mi\u0219care, limbaj \u0219i abilit\u0103\u021bi motorii fine \u00eenc\u0103 din primele zile de via\u021b\u0103. Am observat c\u0103 acest lucru \u2014 pe care \u00eel credeam un simplu trend \u2014 nu s-a domolit niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n

La \u00eenceput am rezistat. Dar, \u00een cele din urm\u0103, pentru a cunoa\u0219te alte mame \u0219i pentru ca fiica noastr\u0103 s\u0103 fie \u201ebine socializat\u0103\u201d, am \u00eenscris-o cu reticen\u021b\u0103, la 3 ani, la un curs de balet \u0219i step. De acolo, cursurile, activit\u0103\u021bile \u0219i angajamentele<\/a> au \u00eenceput s\u0103 se adune.<\/p>\n

Privind \u00een urm\u0103, nu sunt convins\u0103 c\u0103 timpul, banii \u0219i efortul investite au meritat cu adev\u0103rat.”<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

“Aceste angajamente sunt epuizante”<\/h2>\n

“\u00cen perioada \u00een care fiica mea f\u0103cea dans, m-am \u00eemprietenit foarte bine cu o persoan\u0103 cu care sunt prieten\u0103 \u0219i ast\u0103zi, iar pentru asta sunt recunosc\u0103toare. Totu\u0219i, \u00eemi amintesc de multe ori cum, pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce soarele \u00eencepea s\u0103 apun\u0103 \u00een spatele copacilor din jurul casei noastre, \u00eemi a\u0219ezam copilul mic \u0219i bebelu\u0219ul \u00een ma\u0219in\u0103 \u0219i porneam prin ora\u0219 spre studioul de dans, lupt\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 cu c\u0103scatul pe tot parcursul drumului de 10 minute. St\u0103team \u00een sala de a\u0219teptare al\u0103turi de alte mame epuizate. Unele b\u00e2rfeau, altele \u00eencercau s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 sau s\u0103-\u0219i priveasc\u0103 copilul prin geamul de observa\u021bie, iar altele, ca mine, jonglau cu un bebelu\u0219 mofturos, obosit \u0219i fl\u0103m\u00e2nd, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd \u00een acela\u0219i timp s\u0103-\u0219i sus\u021bin\u0103 copilul mai mare. Era mult.”<\/p>\n

“Pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce anii au trecut, s-au ad\u0103ugat tot mai multe activit\u0103\u021bi”<\/h2>\n

“Nu am l\u0103sat dificult\u0103\u021bile de a jongla cu at\u00e2tea responsabilit\u0103\u021bi s\u0103 m\u0103 descurajeze. C\u00e2nd fiica mea cea mare a \u00eemplinit 4 ani, s-a \u00eenscris la o echip\u0103 de baschet. \u00cen fiecare s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103 diminea\u021ba, dis-de-diminea\u021b\u0103, familia<\/a> noastr\u0103 de cinci persoane mergea la sala de sport a unei biserici, ca s\u0103 o \u00eencuraj\u0103m pe fiica mea \u0219i echipa de b\u0103ie\u021bi cu care juca. Adev\u0103rul este c\u0103 o mare parte din entuziasmul legat de activit\u0103\u021bile structurate ale copiilor foarte mici vine de la p\u0103rin\u021bi, care sunt mai competitivi \u0219i mai implica\u021bi dec\u00e2t copiii.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

[analyse_image type=”featured” src=”https:\/\/s1.ziareromania.ro\/?mmid=6b56956b0c748aec7b”] Concluzia unei mame dup\u0103 ce copiii s\u0103i au crescut: “Regret c\u0103 i-am \u00eenscris la at\u00e2t de multe activit\u0103\u021bi c\u00e2nd erau mai mici”. Lec\u021bia pe care a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat-o Autor: Bogdan Atanasiu Miercuri, 15 Aprilie 2026, ora 16:22 1944 citiri Copil care \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenoate FOTO Pixabay Tot mai mul\u021bi p\u0103rin\u021bi \u00eencarc\u0103 agenda copiilor […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[89],"tags":[226,22],"class_list":["post-1884029","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-romania","tag-crawlmanager","tag-ziare-com"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1884029","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1884029"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1884029\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1884029"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1884029"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1884029"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}