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What Having Sex After Menopause Is Really Like<\/h1>\n<\/div>\n
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“I’d always loved sex, but it became astonishing.”<\/div>\n
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By <\/span>Varuna Srinivasan<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n

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Welcome to<\/em>Doing It<\/strong>, a column where sex educator Dr. Varuna Srinivasan explores the deep connections between sex and emotions. This month, they speak to individuals about how their sex lives changed after menopause. Have a question or story idea for Dr. Srinivasan? Submit it here.<\/em><\/p>\n

Fifty-two-year-old Sarah is currently going through menopause and using this time to reinvent herself. She finally came out as bisexual and is in the process of getting a masters degree. But she\u2019s also dealing with some less-positive side effects: On top of all the physical symptoms commonly associated with menopause, Sarah experienced a low sex drive, to the point where she didn\u2019t even want her partner to touch her.<\/p>\n

For people with ovaries, menopause \u2014 defined as 12 months without a period \u2014 typically happens between age 40 and 58, with the average age of onset at 51. There are over 33 different symptoms associated with menopause. A fluctuation of hormonal levels can lead to vaginal dryness, hot flashes, sagging breasts, weight gain, all of which can have an effect on one\u2019s sex life.<\/p>\n

LaReesa Ferdinand, MD, a board certified ob-gyn who specializes in women\u2019s hormones and menopause, says 40 to 50% of women who are experiencing menopause report a loss of desire or low libido. But she says that the decrease in libido cannot be solely attributed to the hormonal changes patients experience during perimenopause and menopause.<\/p>\n

\u201cThere are a lot of psychosocial reasons why someone at that age might have a decrease in libido,\u201d Dr. Ferdinand explains. \u201cFor example, women [in this age group] experience the highest rates of divorce. They can end up being caretakers for elderly parents or empty nesters going through financial changes.\u201d Chronic stress can mess with your hormone levels and, in turn, lead to low libido.<\/p>\n