{"id":1241718,"date":"2022-04-11T11:03:49","date_gmt":"2022-04-11T08:03:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/?p=1241718"},"modified":"2022-04-11T11:03:49","modified_gmt":"2022-04-11T08:03:49","slug":"o-carte-pe-zi-cartea-pe-care-v-ati-fi-dorit-sa-o-citeasca-parintii-vostri-de-philippa-perry-ziarul-de-vaslui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/analyse.optim.biz\/?p=1241718","title":{"rendered":"O carte pe zi: \u201dCartea pe care v-a\u021bi fi dorit s\u0103 o citeasc\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii vo\u0219tri\u201d, de Philippa Perry – Ziarul de Vaslui"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u201dDac\u0103 \u00een loc s\u0103 corecta\u021bi ca ni\u0219te defecte triste\u021bea, furia \u0219i temerile copilului, ve\u021bi profita de ele pentru a afla mai multe despre el \u0219i pentru a comunica, atunci ve\u021bi ad\u00e2nci leg\u0103tura dintre dumneavoastr\u0103. \u0218i altfel \u00eei ve\u021bi cre\u0219te capacitatea de a fi fericit.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 a\u021bi veni acas\u0103 \u0219i i-a\u021bi spune partenerului: \u201dAm avut o zi \u00eengrozitoare la serviciu\u201d, iar el v-ar r\u0103spune \u201d Exagerezi\u201d\u201d, probabil a\u021bi sim\u021bi c\u0103 nu v\u0103 vede, nu v\u0103 aude \u0219i nu v\u0103 \u00een\u021belege. Poate c\u0103 a\u021bi sim\u021bi chiar c\u0103 v\u0103 respinge. Dac\u0103 acesta este r\u0103spunsul pe care \u00eel primi\u021bi \u00een mod obi\u0219nuit, probabil c\u0103 a\u021bi ajunge s\u0103 nu-i mai m\u0103rturisi\u021bi nimic.<\/p>\n

Dar, dac\u0103 partenerul v-ar r\u0103spunde \u201dIa poveste\u0219te-mi\u201d, iar dumneavoastr\u0103 v-a\u021bi apuca s\u0103 \u00een\u0219ira\u021bi ce nedreapt\u0103 a fost \u0219efa \u0219i cum a\u021bi fost nevoit\u0103 s\u0103 reface\u021bi totul din pricina propriei ei incompeten\u021be, iar partenerul ar r\u0103spunde \u201dNormal c\u0103 te-ai enervat\u201d, poate a\u021bi \u00eencepe s\u0103 v\u0103 sim\u021bi\u021bi ceva mai bine.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103, dimpotriv\u0103, partenerul ar \u00eencepe cu cuvintele \u201dP\u0103i, de ce nu au f\u0103cut a\u0219a \u0219i pe dincolo\u2026\u201d \u0219i ar \u00eencepe s\u0103 v\u0103 dea sfaturi, probabil c\u0103 v-a\u021bi sim\u021bi \u0219i mai prost. Dac\u0103 partenerul v-ar r\u0103spunde \u201dIa uite ce veveri\u021b\u0103 frumoas\u0103 \u00een copac\u201d, cu siguran\u021b\u0103 nu i-a\u021bi mai povesti despre ziua dumneavoastr\u0103. Ce sens ar avea?\u201d<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eentreba\u021bi cum poate deveni bestseller o carte scris\u0103 de un psihoterapeut, citi\u021bi neap\u0103rat c\u0103r\u021bile semnate de Philippa Perry. Ve\u021bi avea parte de o lectur\u0103 fascinant\u0103 despre bagajele emo\u021bionale pe care le purt\u0103m cu to\u021bii, util\u0103 pentru a clarifica multe din situa\u021biile cu care ne-am confruntat sau \u00eenc\u0103 ne confrunt\u0103m \u00een via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n

Indiferent dac\u0103 sunte\u021bi interesat s\u0103 \u00een\u021belege\u021bi cum v-a modelat pe voi educa\u021bia pe care a\u021bi primit-o, sau dac\u0103 dori\u021bi s\u0103 gestiona\u021bi sentimentele copilului, ve\u021bi g\u0103si informa\u021bii indispensabile \u0219i sfaturi realiste, s\u0103n\u0103toase, \u00een\u021belepte \u0219i lipsite de prejudecat\u0103. Cu alte cuvinte, cartea este o resurs\u0103 esen\u021bial\u0103 despre cum s\u0103 ai cele mai bune rela\u021bii posibile cu oamenii care conteaz\u0103 cel mai mult pentru tine.<\/p>\n

Fiecare p\u0103rinte \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te s\u0103 aib\u0103 un copil fericit \u0219i fiecare p\u0103rinte \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te s\u0103 fie aproape de copilul s\u0103u, s\u0103 \u00eel educe, s\u0103 \u00eel sus\u021bin\u0103.\u00a0Doar c\u0103 nu to\u021bi reu\u0219im sau nu reu\u0219im \u00eentodeauna.
\u00cen aceast\u0103 carte, captivant\u0103, inteligent\u0103 \u0219i amuzant\u0103, renumita psihoterapeut Philippa Perry ne spune ce conteaz\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat \u0219i ce comportament este important s\u0103 evit\u0103m \u0219i puncteaz\u0103 aspectele esen\u021biale\u00a0 \u00een privin\u021ba a ce trebuie s\u0103 faci \u0219i ce nu trebuie s\u0103 faci ca p\u0103rinte.<\/p>\n

\u00cen loc s\u0103 elaboreze planul perfect, Perry ofer\u0103 o imagine de ansamblu asupra elementelor care duc la rela\u021bii bune p\u0103rinte-copil.\u00a0Aceast\u0103 carte revigorant\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 judec\u0103\u021bi, v\u0103 va ajuta s\u0103 \u00een\u021belege\u021bi modul \u00een care propria\u00a0voastr\u0103\u00a0 educa\u021bie v\u0103 poate afecta educa\u021bia copiilor, s\u0103 \u00een\u021belege\u021bi ce comunic\u0103 copiii prin diferite comportamente \u0219i, nu \u00een ultimul r\u00e2nd, o s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be s\u0103 accepta\u021bi c\u0103 uneori to\u021bi gre\u0219im, dar \u0219i c\u0103 fiecare gre\u0219eal\u0103 poate fi \u00eendreptat\u0103 dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti asta cu adev\u0103rat.
Rubric\u0103 realizat\u0103 cu sprijinul Bibliotecii Jude\u021bene Nicolae Milescu Sp\u0103tarul Vaslui.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Cartea poate fi g\u0103sit\u0103 la Sec\u021bia de \u00eemprumut la domiciliu pentru adul\u021bi a Bibliotecii Jude\u021bene<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n